James and I started dating on April 3 of last year and have been together ever since except for the two months that I screwed up. Every couple has a few rough patches hear and there but instead of slowing down and realizing that I actually do love him, I rushed to conclusion and broke up with him. It was NOT the thing to do. I obviously regretted it and after talking it out and letting him know that it was a mistake, we got back together.
Within those two or so months we were broken up, I did see other people. Just because I saw another guy does not mean I cheated on James. Which is what I've heard... People are constantly stabbing me in the back while I'm not with them, saying James is better off without me and I'm no good for him. The thing that hurts the most is that instead of letting James and I be happy, people have to stab me in the back and then turn around and ask to hang out with us or act like nothing had even happened when they see me at school. Why are so many people so friggin quick to judge me and my relationship when I know for a fact that none of their relationships are perfect? Everyone couple goes through ups and downs and has disagreements, so why is it such a crime that I do in my relationship? Are they jealous of me or the amazing relationship I now have with James? Haha, I like to think that... But honestly though, I love James and he loves me, thats all that matters<3 I'm not pointing anyone out here, I'm just talking about the stuff I have been hearing lately.
Keep your head up! <3 hopefully things will get better. People are way too judgmental!
ReplyDeleteIgnore those people Emily. I had to confront someone once, they soon stopped! It's your relationship not theirs. Keep your head up and forget what they've said, keep being happy. Trust me, they are jealous! :)
ReplyDeleteThis is so valid. It's your relationship and it's no ones business..Keep your head up. Because you & James know what's true and what's not and that's all that matters! <3
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